LOVE LOOPS™

A PATH BACK TO US.

Healing begins with connection.

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Love Loops™ Community Food Co-op

Food Sharing Guide

Food is how we reconnect.

The Love Loops™ Community Food Co-op helps neighbours join together to buy food in bulk, share fairly, and ensure everyone eats.

It’s simple, human, and built on kindness — pay what you can, help where you can, and grow connection instead of fear.

Start one in your building, your workplace, or your town. Together we can feed each other and rebuild trust one meal at a time.

Love Loops™ Friendship Circles

Friendship Circles Guide

We human are pack mammals.

The Love Loops™ Friendship Circles are a path back together. Learning to Love each other when we’ve been taught to FEAR each other. Remembering how.

Written by a relational therapist and coach, this short guide provides ideas for getting people together to start forming more Love Loops in our lives.

Start one in your building, your workplace, or your town. America will heal one relationship at a time. Canada too. We all need each other and we are supposed to love each other. Download your free guide and be part of the change, your mental health and wellness will thank you for it.

Love Loops™ Sunday Gathering

Love Loops™ Sunday Gathering

A gentle weekly gathering of recovering humans, led by therapist and musician Darren Elliott.

Each Sunday we meet for music, reflection, and real connection — learning to replace fear with love, one relationship at a time.

Join us online or in person and feel what it’s like to come home to belonging.

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Love Loops™ Protest Guide

Free Protest Guide

Join a new kind of protest—one that turns fear into empathy and anger into courage.

Be part of creating Love Loops™ instead of fear loops.

Let’s make love louder than fear.

Download your free guide.

Love Loops™ Potluck Guide

Free Potluck Guide

Build community.

We humans bond with food, here is a plan to do that affordably through co-creation.

Maybe you haven’t hosted for a while.

Or ever. That’s fine.

We’ve got you.

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What Are Love Loops?

Love Loops™ are small, intentional acts that turn fear, judgment, and disconnection into empathy, courage, and repair.

They’re the opposite of fear loops — the reactive patterns that keep us blaming, defending, or withdrawing.
Every Love Loop begins with one moment of awareness: a pause, a breath, a choice to stay kind instead of reactive.

That simple shift can change relationships, families, and communities.
Love Loops aren’t just personal growth tools — they’re a cultural movement toward emotional maturity and belonging.

We can’t heal hate with more hate — but we can interrupt it, one Love Loop at a time.

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🌐 THE LOVE LOOPS™ MOVEMENT

Love Loops™ is more than one workbook or idea — it’s a growing ecosystem of personal, relational, and cultural healing.

Choose your starting point:

🌀 Wake Up Guides

For individuals ready to see themselves clearly, grow emotionally, and stop the cycles that cause disconnection.

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💬 Love Loops™ Groups

Join circles of recovering humans who practice connection, accountability, and compassion together.
These groups are safe spaces for learning how to stay kind, even when emotions run high.

Download your free guide and start your own group today.

Love Loops Groups

📖 Love Loops™ for The United States of Disconnection

Companion guides, book club tools, and personal growth workbooks inspired by The United States of Disconnection by Darren Elliott.
Help translate awareness into daily relational change.

Free Guides and Resources

🌱 Emotional Growth Guides

Workbooks, practices, and resources to help you strengthen empathy, self-regulation, and authentic connection in every part of your life.

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Love Loops™

The healing path of The Narcissism Recovery Project™ — daily practices that reconnect us to ourselves and each other.

Love Loops™ is the heart of healing. It is where we learn to feel again, connect again, and love again. In a world of disconnection, Love Loops™ is the practice of creating small, daily cycles of empathy and repair that ripple outward to transform relationships, families, and communities.

This is where the theory becomes practice. Love Loops™ comes alive in book clubs, sharing circles, therapy sessions, coaching programs, and sacred spaces where we can be vulnerable, seen, and supported.

Healing requires more than knowledge — it requires practice. Through Love Loops™, we unlearn what trauma taught us and rebuild relational resilience. This is how empathy grows, how love heals, and how communities can reconnect.