The United States of Disconnection

From Empathy to Extremism: How Narcissistic Abuse Is Tearing America Apart — and the Way Forward

A therapist’s eye-opening take on how narcissistic abuse isn't just personal — it's political, cultural, and national.

“We were meant to love each other. So what happened?”

— Darren Elliott, RP

Why This Book Matters

The United States of Disconnection is the first release under The Narcissism Recovery Project™. Written by Registered Psychotherapist Darren Elliott, it offers a culturally urgent lens on how narcissistic abuse is playing out across politics, religion, social media, and family life — and what it will take to heal.

This is not a clinical textbook. It’s a guide for real people — parents, partners, faith leaders, and anyone waking up to the effects of emotional manipulation and disconnection.

Core Parts of The United States of Disconnection

  • PART 1: Understanding Narcissism

    Why narcissistic traits are survival strategies — not moral failures.

  • PART 2: Repair and Emotional Growth

    How we heal ourselves and each other — in real relationships, not just in theory.

  • PART 3: Cultural Collapse / Collective Narcissism

    What happens when narcissistic traits shape our politics, religion, and public life.

  • PART 4: Healing Masculinity — The Return to Connection

    Rebuilding emotional safety in men, families, and communities.

  • PART 5: Recovery Tools and Legacy

    For therapists, coaches, helpers — and everyone who wants to leave a better legacy.

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Facilitator + Companion Guides

Free resources to deepen your journey with The United States of Disconnection™

These guides are designed to help you get the most out of The United States of Disconnection™ — whether you're reading on your own or leading a group through the 12-week experience.

Both guides follow the structure of the book, chapter by chapter, and are completely free to download.

Start your journey or lead others through theirs — with confidence, structure, and care.

These resources are part of the growing toolkit from The Narcissism Recovery Project™.

The Companion Guide supports readers with weekly journaling prompts, reflection space, and personal exercises for every chapter.

The Facilitator’s Guide is for therapists, coaches, and group leaders — with scripts, grounding tools, discussion prompts, and planning checklists to support healing conversations in groups, book clubs, and circles.