United States of Disconnection Book Now Available!
From Empathy to Extremism: How Narcissistic Abuse Is Tearing America Apart — and the Way Forward
The United States of Disconnection
A therapist’s eye-opening take on how narcissistic abuse isn't just personal — it's political, cultural, and national.
“We were meant to love each other. So what happened?”
— Darren Elliott, RP
Welcome to the United States of Disconnection
In this short welcome, Darren shares why he wrote The United States of Disconnection — and how it can guide us back to each other.
Why This Book Matters
The United States of Disconnection is the first release under The Narcissism Recovery Project™. Written by Registered Psychotherapist Darren Elliott, it offers a culturally urgent lens on how narcissistic abuse is playing out across politics, religion, social media, and family life — and what it will take to heal.
This is not a clinical textbook. It’s a guide for real people — parents, partners, faith leaders, and anyone waking up to the effects of emotional manipulation and disconnection.
Core Parts of The United States of Disconnection
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PART 1: Understanding Narcissism
Why narcissistic traits are survival strategies — not moral failures.
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PART 2: Repair and Emotional Growth
How we heal ourselves and each other — in real relationships, not just in theory.
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PART 3: Cultural Collapse / Collective Narcissism
What happens when narcissistic traits shape our politics, religion, and public life.
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PART 4: Healing Masculinity — The Return to Connection
Rebuilding emotional safety in men, families, and communities.
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PART 5: Recovery Tools and Legacy
For therapists, coaches, helpers — and everyone who wants to leave a better legacy.
A Drag Queen Truth-Bomber on Freedom and Disconnection
Doreen Devine—recovering narcissist, sparkle junkie, and unapologetic truth-teller—calls out the cultural lies we confuse for freedom. With wit, glitter, and brutal honesty, Doreen reminds us that real freedom isn’t domination or escape—it’s empathy, accountability, and connection.
Watch now and see how Doreen’s story ties directly into The United States of Disconnection—and why this movement is about healing together.
Free Resources
Want to Go Deeper?
Facilitator + Companion Guides
Free resources to deepen your journey with The United States of Disconnection™
These guides are designed to help you get the most out of The United States of Disconnection™ — whether you're reading on your own or leading a group through the 12-week experience.
Both guides follow the structure of the book, chapter by chapter, and are completely free to download.
Start your journey or lead others through theirs — with confidence, structure, and care.
The Companion Guide supports readers with weekly journaling prompts, reflection space, and personal exercises for every chapter.
The Facilitator’s Guide is for therapists, coaches, and group leaders — with scripts, grounding tools, discussion prompts, and planning checklists to support healing conversations in groups, book clubs, and circles.
These resources are part of the growing toolkit from The Narcissism Recovery Project™.