Chapter 45: We’re Not Human — What Happens When You’re Treated Like the Enemy

What happens to a society that teaches its people to see one another as threats?

Chapter 45, We’re Not Human, unpacks the emotional cost of dehumanization—how propaganda, polarization, and fear-based politics convince us that empathy is weakness.

Darren Elliott draws parallels between personal narcissistic abuse and cultural manipulation. Both rely on the same tactics: isolation, shame, and rewriting reality until compassion feels dangerous.

Healing begins with remembering our shared humanity—seeing each other not as categories but as hearts trying to stay safe.

Chapter Summary

  • Dehumanization as defense: when people feel powerless, they project pain outward.

  • Language of the enemy: how labels (“traitor,” “enemy,” “evil”) sever empathy.

  • Reclaiming our reflection: we cannot heal if we keep seeing enemies where we should see neighbors.

  • Collective invitation: choose understanding over fear.

“You can’t bomb your way back to belonging.”

This chapter calls for emotional courage: the willingness to feel again, even when the world rewards numbness.

Closing Invitation

If cruelty has become normalized, empathy is now an act of resistance.

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